Taking it personal

Women are repeatedly accused of taking things personally. I cannot see any other honest way of taking them. Marya Mannes Personal: : relating to an individual or an individual’s character, conduct, motives, or private affairs often in an offensive manner Have you heard : Do not take things personally, nothing others do is because of you….

Holding on to things…

We hold on to everything…….. Magazines, socks, clothes, and any other possibly usable thing… Gifts, Cards, Paperwork, Pictures…….. Thoughts, Bad habits, Excuses, Anger, Hurts, Fears…. Pull out your DECLUTTERING BAG and get rid of some stuff…. Pull out your Garbage Can and throw out crap you dont use or need… DONATE IT….Give it away…something… and…

The Common Ground

There is a place where two people can stand. Having differing opinions. Having different understanding. Sometimes this place where two can stand takes each one on a journey within themselves to find what is most important …to be right in their own mind and thinking…to have the other agree with them so that they feel protected and appreciated or is…

SHAME ON YOU!

Encouragement and kind words are always better teachers than shame. -Jacob Isreal Facebook post :0) SHAME:  a painful emotion caused by consciousness of guilt, shortcoming, or impropriety done by oneself or another, or to drive, force, etc., through the use of shame. You don’t do things right?  You never finish what you start? It seems to me that…

A changling

A fundamental truth that our true self is not a thing with fixed attributes; it is an ever-transforming, ever-renewing process. – enneathought – enneagraminstitute.com Isnt it true that we are ever-growing, changing, and renewing in someway shape or form. We learn from our life experiences and by watching what others do. We incorporate these things into…

Not Ashamed

Live never to be ashamed if anything you do or say is published around the world – even if what is published is not true. — Richard Bach, from Illusions I do my best to be who I am all the time…sometimes that just doesnt work out. In those moments it is Not that I am…